I had such great feedback from my last post (sorry it has been awhile it has been an incredible and busy 1st quarter for me), I wanted to continue on this theme. Many of you have heard this concept before “Time will other promote you or expose you”
I have seen too many leaders in the industry of Network Marketing after having 1 great year, 2 years or even maybe 3 years, their teams eventually implode and the pattern continues to the next business they join. The statement that I am about to make may be a little controversial, it is not uncommon in Network Marketing to see Leaders in this industry who have successfully built teams in many companies 2,3 4, or even 5 different ones, but unfortunately the pattern continues where it falls apart. Incredibly you have these great talented people are living in a certain Paradigm that causes these teams to fall apart, with most of these people they really never take personal responsibility for this implosion however, from the outside looking in the pattern definitely becomes apparent – “Time will other promote you or expose you”.
What I personally have figured out traveling the Globe building my business building in the trenches, Leadership really starts with Self Esteem – how you feel about yourself. If you are a Leader and have had success in this industry developing large teams and it has fallen apart for you at least a few times, at first I understand it is easy to blame the company, they may have changed the comp plan, broken promises etc…, eventually when it happens a 2nd time, a 3rd time you will need to start looking from the inside so the pattern can be broken, what I would call a “mental enema”. As Bob Proctor states “Change your Paradigms and your life will change”.
Even though you may feel you have great self esteem and no issues, “work with me on this” and reflect on what I am going to share with you. In Leadership like everything else
Love is the center and the core of everything,
and that Self is the place where all love must begin.
Those who love and respect others grandly are those who love
and respect themselves grandly. Those who have a high toleration
and acceptance of others are those who have a high
toleration and acceptance of themselves.
Those who build their business with integrity build their families with integrity, treating everyone on their teams that they are just as special as the next person no matter what the pin level, have in turn will reveal themselves to their teams as a Leader who leads by example in all areas of their lives. Someone worth emulating.
You cannot show another a part of you that you
cannot show yourself. Therefore, begin where all
growth, where all evolution, where all love must begin:
with the person in the mirror.
Want to build a long term residual income? The Person in the mirror will always in a position of Leadership will either promote or expose themselves eventually!!
So what is the mirror saying to you these days?
God Bless your friend and business partner,
P.S. As always I would love to get your feedback on this post.